Year round school

Another community in my state has voted to turn to year round school.  There are different names for it, but that's what it is.  Back in the day, the thought of year round school was widely denounced and villified (say 25 years ago).

As a parent, my experience has been the opposite.  Year round school has been great for our family.  The kids still have five to six weeks off in the summer.  They have two week fall, winter and spring breaks.  In the end, the total amount of time they spend in school is only a handful of weeks longer than a traditional calendar.

In the end, most families have parents who work full or part time throughout the year.  They do not get the same amount of vacation that their kids do.  The family is left scrambling for daycare, day camp or family members (or all three) to fill the void.  All three can be expensive depending on the arrangements you make.

So the days of summer vacation as days without schedules or purpose are gone for most families.

I know of people who hire nannies for the summer months so the kids can hang out at the pool.  And there are families who can afford to have one parent stay home full time even when the kids are in school.  But there are disadvantages to that as well - most notably the retirement funds for the full time stay at home parent.

Yes, children need free time and time to play.  They need exposure to the world outside of school.  It's clear that they need unstructured time as well to develop creatively. 

Some lawmakers (in my state) are stuck in this older reality.  They assume that one parent can stay home, even when kids are in school. They lament that kids no longer have free time like they did. Which is fine - but it's ignoring the experience of most parents and families.  Most notably, I've found this with my experience on the parent teacher association for the school.  Most parents are working two jobs to pay the rent; they're not able to go to fundraising activities.  And it's unrealistic to expect them to do so.

So the reality is, kids who aren't in school will probably be in some sort of daycare/day camp.  How different is school from day camp anyway?  Obviously most day camps are more activity/fun based than traditional school.  Day camp doesn't usually have licensed teachers. 

But to my mind, the only downsides to a longer school year are that teachers have to work more days and it may cost the state more.  Day camp and school are much more alike than school and unstructured summer vacation days.

In Malcolm Gladwell's Outliers, he shares statistics that most upper and middle class children do not lose as much of their learning through the summer break.  But for some families, particularly lower income families, the kids lose a great deal through the long summer months.  So it seems to me, if we want to give those kids the best chance to succeed, and help support families - lengthening the school year is a great way to do it. 

Originally, the summer break was simply to allow farm kids to help with the farm during planting and harvest season.  Most Americans live in urban locations now, not on farms.  So unstructured play was always a luxury.

Unfortunately, it seems to take forever for our educational system to adapt best practices/research based innovations.  They were discussing early childhood education in the 1970s.  Only now are both political parties beginning to recognize the wisdom of working with children earlier.  Sadly, other countries have been engaged with both early childhood education and longer school years for years. 

Fall Break

Maple leaves 2012

For the last two weeks  the kids have been on fall break; otherwise known as a time for rest and rejuvenation for the parents.  We are very fortunate that my in laws have been hanging out with the kids for most of that time (because I couldn't take two weeks off of work).

My husband and I spent the first week eating at restaurants we choose not to go to with the kids.  The restaurants include Peruvian, Belgian and relatively authentic Mexican.  Also doing chores that are much simpler without kids running around. 

I miss my kids, but the past few months have been incredibly, intensely busy.  And this situation is a win/win - my in laws get to spend quality time with their grandchildren, and I get some time off.

I wish all parents had this opportunity - I know quite a few parents who are tired and could use some time to themselves. They need time where they don't have to answer seven billion questions or argue about eating food or going to bed on time.  I love being a mom - but it can be exhausting.

For me, it also helps put things into perspective.  The past seven years have gone by quickly.  Everyone says that, but I've found it's true.  I suspect the next seven years will go by just as quickly - and my kids will be fourteen.  It's just as important (as always) to focus on the present and what I want to teach them now - developing a strong parent/child relationship now.   

The Subversive Nature of Emily Dickinson

I agree wholeheartedly with this Emily Dickinson poem.  If there is a God or Higher Power, I believe he/she/it/they would agree with this sentiment.

*I had a great hike this morning!

Part Two: Nature
LVII

SOME keep the Sabbath going to church;
I keep it staying at home,
With a bobolink for a chorister,
And an orchard for a dome.
Some keep the Sabbath in surplice;	5
I just wear my wings,
And instead of tolling the bell for church,
Our little sexton sings.
God preaches,—a noted clergyman,—
And the sermon is never long;	10
So instead of getting to heaven at last,
I ’m going all along!