|Rose bush 2014|
It turns out I did.
And it survived this past winter, which my lavender bush did not.
I wasn't sure that it would weather being re-planted and moving to a new place. But it hasn't just survived (as the saying goes) it's thrived.
My husband and I recently announced our separation and pending divorce. I don't want to go into all the reasons for what happened. It's between the two of us. It was not an easy decision, we are both responsible, and we both tried really, really hard to make our marriage work.
It just wasn't to be.
As I mentioned in my fb status update, we are committed to putting the kids first and making the transition as easy as possible for them. And so far, both he and I have really been successful in that. I've known too many divorces/separations that haven't been that way, so I am incredibly grateful.
And it has been hard, despite how amicable everything has been.
I have also received an amazing amount of support from family and friends, which is humbling (and makes me tear up sometimes when I think about it). It appears that some of the stigma of divorce is fading (thank goodness) and that our culture is changing.
I don't know what the future will hold. I do know that so much of my life appears to be unexpected. But it also has pleasant surprises - and gifts I didn't expect.