So it's ironic some years later to realize various ways I'm turning into my parents (and admit it to my children and the internets).
- I don't order pizza delivery
It used to drive me nuts as a teenager that my parents wouldn't order pizza delivery. I ordered pizza myself a few times as a teen. But now - the cost of tipping the delivery person is just too much. And it's not as if it's a lot of money. For me, I am much more willing to drive to the pizza place and pick up pizza myself (bonus points for the frozen pizza they carry). And when the weather is awful and I don't want to cook - I hate the idea of the pizza delivery person driving to my house.
- I have been putting meat in the freezer
My children's dad was shocked when we first moved in together that I would put bacon and sausage in the freezer. He felt this was heresy.
But for me, now, I'm eating a lot less meat, and it could easily go bad. So I'm putting it in the freezer, and defrosting what I need.
- I don't play the lottery
For me, playing the lottery always feels like burning money. It must be how much I know about the math involved - it's more likely that I will be struck by lightening. Not sure if my parents said this explicitly, but it was always implied.
One of my goals is to be frugal, not cheap. I read about the cheap vs. frugal dynamic - being cheap is deliberately not spending money and not being concerned about quality. Frugal is being conscious about spending money, and working towards quality.
The most important part (to my mind) is making conscious decisions. I am consciously choosing these habits of my parents (which typically make logical sense). It would be foolish (and immature) to reject good ideas just because my parents did (or did not) choose them. I think it's only natural that each person chooses to be like their parents in some ways, and chooses a different path in other ways.
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